There is a huge difference between being INSPIRED by someone and COPYING someone…

Published on: Mar 18 2013 by dsaks

Do you ever showed up  your awesome new belt or shoes,when you wear it and the next day your friend has it ??? Pernah tidak bertemu teman yang kalau di depan kamu seperti tidak tertarik dengan keberadaan kamu, apapun yang kamu kenakan (dari ujung kaki sampai ujung rambut) dan tiba tiba selang beberapa waktu apapun yang kamu pakai kemudian dia memakainya ??? Oke’ Let’s talk about a Copy Cat Friend!  Begitu jauh perbedaan antara “Terinspirasi” dan “Copycat”. Katakanlah kita terinspirasi kepada seseorang, mereka yang terinspirasi lebih jujur dan mengakui kelebihan orang lain dan apa adanya, tapi mereka yang copycat lebih ‘berambisi’ ingin selalu sama, terkesan cuek tapi “mengikuti secara diam diam”, mengintip, memantau dan duarrrrrrr tiba tiba “gayaku gayamu juga” LOL…aku bisa katakan ini pengecut! yaaa sedikit muna laaah kalau dlm bahasa gaul nya. =)) Tipikal mereka yang terinspirasi lebih terbuka dalam mengungkapkan kalau dia tertarik dengan apa yang kita kenakan, tetapi tipe mereka yang copycat selalu terlihat cuek di segala situasi apapun bahkan ketika kita dalam kondisi “full tampil from head to toe” mereka menyimak dengan seksama, memperhatikan details yang kamu kenakan tapi yaa itu sperti yang aku bilang “belagak acuh tapi mengerling” hari berikut apapun yang kmu kenakan pas bertemu dia kenakan di lain kesempatan. Bener bener admires kan! pokoknya apapun mesti sama. Semula tidak tau menjadi tau dan copy copy copycat semua tentang kamu…. 😀 Well, keep cool with your copycat friend. I know it doesn’t seem like it, but when your friend copies you, she’s really giving you a compliment. Nah, ada beberapa sedikit tips  dariku nih menghadapi sang copycat disimak ya, cekidot……

Some Tips for a CopyCat Friend :

– “Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery” Ingat kan kata kata ini…I think that means, when she copies you she is really telling you, she admires you. If you can look at that way, it might make it better and not so annoying ( tapi tetep aja yaah,  berasa “kembar” lihat orang copycat ;p). It sounds like she really likes the way you do.

– You want to be yourself, and she should be herself. Maybe she doesn’t really know how to choose the things or can’t make up her mind so she looks at what you wear to figure out what she should wear. You should go shopping together and HELP her pick out some things that are more her, the way you see her. (itung stung pahala bantuin orang yakaaan…..;p)

– Learn to IGNORE..abaikan, anggap saja dia adalah fans berat kamu! Yang selalu memantau pergerakkan, gaya dan kegiatan kamu setiap saat..In other words, you’re taste is so good, that’s why your friend want to copy it. =)

Finally, if none of these ideas work and your friend is totally stubborn and keeps on copying you no matter what you do, just leave her. Don’t give her any reaction at all. Don’t give her compliments. Don’t act annoyed or upset. Do nothing. She might be looking for a reaction to get attention. Tetap tampil, tetap eksis, tetap mempesona…tetap menjadi diri kamu sendiri. 🙂

Remember, your friend is probably just trying to figure out what she likes, and she sees that you have a good taste and style and she wants to be like you. Try to smile and take it as a COMPLIMENT. And to get you SMILING, here’s a joke : If there are 10 cats in a boat and one jumps out, how many are left?  None, they are all copycats! Good Luck to all of you guys….Thanks for visiting and reading, you can share your comments here about the copycat friend…berikan pendapatmu yaaa, Xx DsaksInstyle

PS : Spy me baby, I give surprises to you every day 😉

 

 

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